because i couldn't find my muet result
I don't think I can ever, ever fall again after this. What kind of fall you ask? Well, there's the literal meaning and the figurative. Yes I can be quite of a klutz sometimes, or a more familiar term, frappy, but unless I'm Bella Swan, then no, not literally. Fall in love that is. Once you fall and you open up everything; your self, your emotions, your thoughts, your likes and dislikes, you become vulnerable. And because you put your whole trust in that person, you start to feel comfortable. Too comfortable. Nothing he or she does can ever be wrong in your eyes. Always sweet, always pure, always nice, always right. Hence the saying, love is blind. Oh yes, it really is. Now here comes the gritting part. The love goes astray. The fire isn't there anymore. You know him too well, he knows you too well, there's no excitement, no passion. You get tired of each other's ramblings, attitudes, maybe taking him or her for granted as well because you think your love is strong enough to hold you both together so you don't work at it. What happens if it isn't? Will you part, or will you fix? Fix the relationship or fix you? Surely you have accepted each other fully, all of him and all of her right from the beginning. So how can you fix someone? It's not written but we all know that accepting someone for who they are is 'stated' in the rules of love. So you don't fix him or her. Fix the relationship is the next step to mend the rift. You try again and again, up to the point that you force yourself to love. When you find yourself in that position, well it is obvious now isn't it? There's no love anymore. It died down. After one goes kaput, can you see yourself in another mind-blowing romance? Are you willing to open up that far again? Yeah of course, with the right person. I'm still optimistic despite being scared of the vulnerability part. I've been there before. It's not nice, not nice at all. Although it is the greatest feeling in the world, I find it to be a scary thing. Odd, very odd.
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7 tissues:
you should really watch Revolutionary Road.
"How do you break free without breaking apart?" that's the tagline. And I swear, that's one emotionally gripping movie.
five freaking stars.
go watch
:)
I tried to fix the relationship and I tried fixing me.
None works when it's meant to end.
"Love is so mysterious and hurtful, but we crave it because its still beautiful - NAS"
XD
nash ur 'i see u' icon on the right nie scary la.u cn tell who checks ur blog isit?
i get this post.i totally can relate to it.the passion has died and ur bored with tht person but ur scared of being alone.i say take baby steps and hang out with girlies
moja, oh it is the one with kate and leo? huhu dgr the tagline pun i can feel it's gripping and probably sad too. ok will do :)
fiqa, aah kan? sumtimes it's fate. he's not your jodoh so even if u fix it really hard pun, it's no use. love is so hard. :/
aina, oh dier just gtau ade sum1 tgh view ur page haha. i amik dr blog moja muahehehehe.
kan aina kan? ughh. oh i can't spill my guts out here. nnt kte story2 kat fac hehehe :D
erm..jadi dimanakah muet memainkan peranannya? ;p
it is very scary and sakit. sgt sgt sakit. tapi itu la yang kita kena tanggung kan?
cinta itu buta dan juga b0leh membutakan
melukakan dan sukar untuk kita lupakan
aku cinta padamu hanyalah ungkapan
luahan yang jarang bermakna bila diucapkan - dua dunia
tajuk nashrah ni ada iras dgn 'because i c0uld not st0p f0r death'- emily dickins0n. nice p0em :)
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