even steven
How does one balance every single aspect of his or her life perfectly? I find it hard to do so. I tend to find myself doing the right thing for only a short period of time, before falling over and mess everything up again. My attention span does not seem to last very long on the 'right thing', and it's hard to keep track. But really, how do they do it? How do you do it? Let me give you some examples.
Between being modest and too proud. When you are being modest about some achievement you've gotten, people will say 'eleh, sebenarnya dia suka tu', and envy will slowly reveal itself and you will end up being disliked.
But when you are too proud, people will still not like you but no envy there. Just plain hate, or disgust.
Dirty things. Or to put it in a more decent manner, the facts of life.
When you don't want or like to talk about it or have no clue whatsoever, people will say you're a prude. But if you know everything, and I do mean every thing, they think you're a pervert.
Between being quiet in class and paying attention and being seen as a boring, dull person by others. When you're in class and listening to a lecture, you have to be quiet and pay attention right? So you can listen and take down notes for you to read later to pass tests and exams and such. But sometimes, teachers and friends would think you're a loner, or a goody two shoes, or a 'tin kosong'. Then you'll end up in the 'hidden' list of kids to watch out for.
Think about it, and do share me your tips. Working to strike the perfect balance in things is hard work when you don't know whether you're doing it right. :s
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i think it this way, i'm here and there for myself, not to impress anyone.
ppl are trying their best just for the sake to impress others. If not, y are we trying to be the best? to be perfect? because we want to IMPRESS others. (:
ps: live and think for only ourselves, u won't be stuck thinking too much on what should be done. kan? i dont know... hehe
gotta agree with fira here.
Ive given up to think what others would think and just do it my way.
I pray that deep in my heart, I would be sincere, that whatever I do it would be lillahita'ala and I hope it would show without me having to do anything.
Nashrah, dont worry, you're such a doll already. :)
trying t0 d0 everything right and justifying that it is right als0 w0uld be wr0ng. f0r me la.. i think. just hate it when pe0ple trying t0 be right all the time and feel the need t0 justifying whatever they are d0ing t0 be the m0st righte0us way and acceptable. ceh. I d0n't give a tut. lets n0t give a tuuut k? :)) ini negara dem0krasi! pedulikan mereka. mari kita buat apa yang kita suka. selagi tak melanggar batas itu tak mengapa kan..
Heeeeee suka sgt dgn comment korg! thank u so much, i feel better now :) :) :) yes, sumtimes i do act myself, but certain situations and positions force me to act a certain way. but most of them are good though. they push me to get out of my comfort zone and strive harder to be the best, instead of being comfortable and not improving anything. sumtimes they do bring me down, but what doesn't kill u makes u stronger right? i just held my head up and look fwd and just dont care and do my own thing. thanks you guys! lovess xx :)
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